Product Review – 007 Cars

toystate_007secretagentastonmartindb5The last piece of the ‘turn LTD into a clone of me,’ trifecta after Star Wars and Superheroes is of course James Bond. However, I hit some snags when trying to teach the little guy about the world’s most famous secret agent. Some of the things that Commander Bond says and does are little age in appropriate (just a little: see guns, girls and booze). However, LTD still enjoys a fancy car when he sees one especially since our home car collection only includes the finest Ferraris and Lambos (wishful thinking). The Toy State 007 cars are around 9 inches long, battery operated and have lights & buttons that play effects. And like all good Bond cars, they drive by themselves. However, LTD has never actually played with classic Goldfinger Astin Martin because one of the sound effects is the legendary Bond theme music and I can’t stop playing with it myself. Perhaps I will let him have it when we watch our first Bond movie together or I should say when The Mommy lets us watch one.

Interview – J. Scott Fuqua

Calvert CoverI interviewed author and illustrator J. Scott Fuqua about his book, Calvert the Raven in The Battle of Baltimore. The book focuses on Baltimore during the War of 1812 to teach history student Daniel that despite what he believes history isn’t boring.

Is it difficult writing to a young audience in terms of tone and maturity?

Not really… Maybe I’m just immature, but it’s easier, and often a bit more comfortable to write from a child’s point of view. I actually enjoy approaching the world in a wondering, concerned, confused, and very wide-eyed way. It’s just cool to be able to see something amazing for the first time, to acquire knowledge so easily, and to speak your mind about topics that you don’t understand or find boring. At the same time, I in know way believe that kids are all the same. I know that many young people are cowed by anxiety, social issues, and stress at home. Still, there is a magic and joy to youth that I try to acknowledge. In other books I deal with the more difficult issues, subjects that also come to me without too much difficulty what with the fact I had a very difficult and unique childhood.

The War of 1812 is not well remembered what made you focus on that?

I focused on the War of 1812 for two reasons: The first is because it is always sort of thrown in with all that junk around the 4th of July, the Declaration of Independence and the Revolutionary war. But it really is it’s own thing. War had changed. This country had changed. At the same time, the United States was walking the line between success and failure. It was a strange, very important moment in history for the world that very few people acknowledge. And the second reason I focused on the war of 1812 is sort of my own hang up. I believe that kids and their parents sort of relegate the birth of this nation to mythology, to huge important people doing huge, breathtaking things, the type of which nobody in this day and age could ever manage. But this isn’t true, so I tried to show the readers and Daniel, the boy in the story, that life then is as real as life now, that everyone, from kids to adults, was at risk, that real people sweated in their wool clothing, that real people fought exhaustion, pain, fear, and discomfort to do something, on an individual level, that is about finding the emotional strength necessary to make something that is unlikely, like a victory in Baltimore, come true.

There are probably a ton of ideas you have for children’s books, how do you decided which ones to actual write and illustrate?

I decide what to write by choosing the stories I like the most. But I’ve always written what I’ve wanted. I’ve always done that. I mean, writing is not a hugely lucrative career, so, if you can’t live in an exclusive neighborhood or go out to dinner at expensive restaurants (which I wouldn’t want to do anyway), then you might as well do what you want. Also, I write very issue driven work, the type of books and stories that deal with the things that I feel are important for kids and adults to consider, like race, mental illness, bullying, history, capitalism, and even death. I mean, I really do what I want to most of the time.

Which do you find more challenging the writing or the art?

Well, to be honest, writing is harder. Writing is about a few things, saying well and saying correctly and, most importantly, saying uniquely (or oddly, which is what I attempt to do). Strangely enough, I don’t love singers who have typical pop-star voices. I can’t stand them. I want something different and original, even if it has a few warts. I’m the same way with writing. So writing can be harder, while the art feels more like exciting, difficult, and sometimes maddening play. I enjoy the art enormously, because when I produce my art, I just let my brain go and try to create something that is always visually surprising. So both writing and illustration are wonderful professions, and rewarding in their very different ways, yet I find writing more challenging and difficult than illustration. It just is.

Did you doodle as a kid in class and if so did you send copies of your books to the teachers who told you to stop?

Doodled all of the time… I couldn’t hear well if I wasn’t doodling, then, in order to keep my attention, the teachers would tell me to stop or take away my drawing paper and I went nearly deaf. Nothing made sense anymore.

As for going back and giving teachers who told me to stop doodling one of my books, I haven’t. However, once I enjoyed telling a former teacher that I had become a successful writer. The reason I was so happy is that I am dyslexic, and, in high school, a few teachers kind of shook their heads and thought I was a lazy at spelling and memorizing math formulas, and believed out-loud that I wouldn’t amount to much in regards to an education or intellectual acuity.  And that teacher was one of those individuals, the rat.

You have an affinity for Maryland, will you be making a children’s book of The Wire?

Hmm, a children’s book about the wire. Maybe. Well, at least about kids and the hopelessness of living in a world overrun by violence and joblessness and drugs. I’d like to write something like that, because, no matter what kind of information folks unfamiliar with city life are presented with, when they don’t see it personally, they can’t as clearly understand how oppressive and impossible it is to overcome a world like that. Of course, I think there is hope, but I don’t think we’re doing a very good job of getting that across right now. I mean, if I could earn seven dollars an hour dunking frozen French fries into bubbling oil tanks or a few hundred in an afternoon selling, I’d probably start selling too. Of course I wasn’t presented with this scenario as a kid. I can still imagine the calm of a decent home. I knew I was going to college. So, the question becomes: What if you didn’t know where you’d be in a few months (dead, jailed, fearful, bullied, trapped, hungry) much less four to five years from now?

Yard Sale

yard-saleI recently taught something to LTD that now I slightly regret. A little back story, every time I ask LTD what he wants to eat he always asks for ‘something I never ate before.’ Normally, my answer is always that we don’t have anything like that and he can enjoy either yogurt or cheese. However, one morning when he was trying to decide which cereal to have, an activity that required me to show him each box, I had a brainstorm. I could kill two birds with one stone. I told him about the yard sale, which is when you take all the cereals and combine them in one bowl (or the soda fountain). He was excited about the whole thing and it was mission accomplished. And by that I mean he took two bites and said he was done. Of course now he always asks for it, but never eats it.

Copycat

tom-cruise-like-father-like-sonFrom the ‘you know you are a father files’ comes a tale of cuteness. A few weeks ago, I was wearing khakis and a blue t-shirt as I do at least once a week when LTD came downstairs wearing a blue t-shirt and light pants and announced he was dressed just like daddy. The next day when he was getting ready for bed he wore just a pair of shorts, again to be just like daddy. At first I was thinking of all the mad possibilities of us dressing like twins or that I could finally complete his transformation into mini me, but cooler heads prevailed as he hasn’t dressed like me or mentioned anything about it since. However, the memory will always be one I have of the little guy once again being sweet and let’s hope he keeps his hair so in the future he actually isn’t just like daddy.

National Asthma and Allergy Awareness

asajdfqasdfmllllAs May is National Asthma and Allergy Awareness Month these tips by Robin Wilson is CEO of Robin Wilson Home, and an ambassador for The Asthma and Allergy Foundation of America, will be useful.

Is your pillow killing you, or at the very least making you sick?  Do your kids suffer from asthma and allergies?  When was the last time you changed or even cleaned their pillow?  Most people don’t even realize how long they’ve had the same pillow – some going as long as 10 years or more without a new one or even cleaning their existing one.

-       All pillows need to be housed in a pillow protector or zippered pillow cover in addition to a pillow case. This will help keep out unwanted germs and fungi such as dust mites, bugs, dead skin and other dangerous bacteria.

-       Wash your pillow at least twice a year to keep it clean, and for allergy and asthma sufferers make sure and use synthetic pillows over feathered ones, and anti-allergen or hypoallergenic pillow cases and covers.

-       Toss two pillows in the washing machine at a time. This way, the machine will stay balanced while it spins.  If you are only washing one pillow, counterbalance by using towels or a small blanket.

-       Use the natural sunlight to dry your pillows as sunlight kills bacteria. Usually up to six hours on each side is sufficient.

-       To reduce the amount of bacteria that can impact your sleeping environment and get into your pillow, keep pets out of the bedroom and avoid wall-to-wall carpeting which is a breeding ground for dust mites.

-       As you make your bed each morning, fluff feather and down pillows to get rid of dust and redistribute the filling.

-       Get a new pillow every three years.

Product Review – Boba Carrier 3G

_mg_8279The Mommy has long been into baby carriers, but I have always been on the fence. However, now that LTD is four and BB is five months the level of activity and range of motion needed to for me to navigate these waters have changed my mind. I can’t use the stroller at the playground or library because where LTD is concerned, he is just too fast. The Boba Carrier solves my mobility challenges in way that makes me feel like Luke carrying Yoda in Empire. Since it has foot straps I guess the analogy would be that I am a horse that the baby rides. I was wary at first thinking I was going to need to take yoga to be able to put him in it by myself, but like most things I was making it more complicated than it needed to be and now I can strap the baby to my chest pretty quickly. I do need to turn him around at some point because the level of drool on my shirts is getting ridiculous. I also occasionally feel cool like last weekend when I had him strapped to my chest and the baby supplies pack on my back, it looked like I was parachuting into Normandy.

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You Can’t Stop Him Only Contain Him

Baby MonstersSo at almost five months, BB has decided what kind of baby he wants to be, he wants to be a monster. He already has three teeth and one more on the way. This has the added benefit of making a ton of water flow out of his gaping maw onto his shirt and mine. Additionally, his drool often like in the movie Alien leaves one of those drool trails when going from his mouth to whatever surface it hits. When put on his back on a blanket, he flips over and moves around in a matter of seconds. I leave him in one spot and turn around to find him five feet away kicking and screaming. But it would not be exactly fair to call BB a monster, it would be more accurate to refer to him as the Hulk since he spends most of his time as a sweet mellow baby but then he transforms into a beast. Oh, and did I mention he is incredibly strong. Well, he is. The other day when lying in-between The Mommy and LTD for a bedtime story, in a flash he hit both of them in the face repeatedly. True he was just trying to sit up, but still it was a monster move. Now that I think about how sweet he is I’m going to change my Hulk answer to a Jekyll and Hyde one.

Interview – Scott Bedford

Made By Dad Cover.inddI interviewed Scott Bedford from the What I Made blog and author of the new book “Made by Dad: 67 blueprints for making cool stuff.” The book features cool projects you can make with your kids. But don’t worry the book also includes drawn instructions so you can’t screw them up (which I did, ugh me and glue, don’t get me started).

How important is the comic book ethos to your work?


Even though the hand drawn instructions that accompany all my projects could be described as being cartoon like, it’s actually the project ideas themselves that have been more inspired by the comic book ethos. I grew up with Whacky Races, Stop the Pigeon and Roadrunner cartoons – I loved the crazy machines and gadgets portrayed in them and tried drawing my own, and when I was a bit older making them in my Dads workshop. The One-TON-lampshade is definitely “Wile E. Coyote” inspired!

What or who or some of your artistic and DIY influences?

I really can’t underestimate the influence of the Hanna Barbera Whacky Races cartoon – I spent endless hours as a kid trying to draw my own machines, I guess that’s how I developed a drawing style that is somewhere between a technical drawing and a cartoon! As far as DIY influences go, there are just so many sources of inspiration these days – whether it be Make: magazine, instructables.com, or unique blogs like Bent Objects. However, I never start there. For me projects begin organically, perhaps something just pops into my mind, or my boys are doing something that triggers an idea, either way, I very rarely start by looking at what other people are doing first, I prefer inspiration to come at a more sub-conscious level.

What was your initial motivation in creating your DIY craft world?

Two incidents got me back into making things. Firstly, to keep my son from getting bored on a visit to Starbucks I made a little house from the wooden stir sticks – it worked, he spent 10mins trying to make his own one and this became one of the first projects I blogged about. Secondly, my same son had to build a spaghetti and marshmallow tower (with the help of parents) as part of a school science project – his tower won, and I decided to share the design with the blogosphere, this continued the chain of events that eventually ended up in the creation of “Made by Dad”.

I know we can’t pick favorite kids, but do you have a favorite project (Mine is the 1-Ton Lampshade)?

Ha ha – yes, it was the last project I made, and it’s one of my favourites as well! The “Bunk-bed communicator” also tickles me, as does the “Eating Nemo” project, which was much adored by my two nieces (to my surprise).
 

From some of your designs it feels like you may have gotten hurt a couple of times creating these crafts, is that true?
Oh… I hope I haven’t created the impression that these projects are dangerous! No, I survived all 67 projects with nothing more than a paper-cut – but that doesn’t mean you don’t need to be careful when using equipment like a craft knife or hot glue, however, with close supervision even older children can be shown how to use these tools safely.

What are the rules for how long parents need to keep an art project?

Wow… that really is the million dollar question! For us space is a key factor in deciding what stays and what goes. Drawings are easy to pack away, so we keep lots of those, small crafts (such as fridge magnets made out of modelling clay) are also kept. However, things made out of cardboard boxes and toilet rolls have their moment of glory on the shelf before eventually finding their way into the trash (but only after a proper photographic record has been made!).

Kids Say The Darndest Things BTCS Edition

ladybugEach week at LTD’s school they study a different topic, some weeks it’s snow or recycling. Last week they were talking about bugs. Of course, the little guy’s favorite bug is the ladybug. As he was drawing said ladybug he told one of his teachers the following direct quote.
“This is my giant ladybug. He is so giant. We can do high jumps. He ate my name.”

Mr. Mom Part II

220px-Mr_mom_posterHere is an interesting article about finding a new name for stay at home dads. Some of the suggestions are really really weak. Click Here.